A new year in Masihi calendar!
Common thing to do : to set a year GOAL!
Yeah!
Perhaps because we were used to it!
Why not on the first day of 1436 Hijrah?
It is on 24th October 2014
A couple months ago...
On that day,
1st Muharam 1436,
Reciting the Quran on Maghrib
and get ready for the dua for end of the year;
Resuming the page I suppose to read,
I was reading this surah;
Surah Al- Ra'd
on that very calm night;
Subhanallah!
There comes verse 11 on this 13 surah!
Allahuakbar!
The sign from Allah swt!
Mashaallah!
He tells us! On the first day of 1436!
Without no doubt!
Allah swt has made that clearly!
All the changes is from your willingness
from you!
I have heard from one of the motivational talk
At tv Al- Hijrah which is Reflection by Imam Suhaib Webb
That 30 minutes talk stress about 7 years of our goal.
We need to set a goal and accomplish it within 7 years.
Relevantly, we can see in Islam, why 7 years?
There are guidance for our parents to raise kids according to our age.
Source : http://www.imamreza.net/eng/imamreza.php?id=7696
Three Stages Of Life
First stage (1-7) Years old: The child is a "master" to parents
The age of being a child and play. Not yet ready for education through
formal instruction.The child is influenced by the atmosphere and
surrounding; which they learn by observations. Therefore it is important
for the parents to be a good example to their child; the excellent behaviour
and manner.
~ Good time to teach the child to basic steps to Solat (prayer)
Second stage (8- 14) Years old: The child is a "slave" to parents
For the next seven years, Child's mind can grasp logical reasoning and
is developed for formal education. The child should be raised with proper
Islamic values and ethics. Religious education is very crucial at this stage
of age to provide firm foundation for the kids. At these age, Parents should
be strict in disciplining their children.
Third stage (15- 21) Years old: The child is a "friend" to parents
As this stage of age, the child is grown up to be a responsible teenager.
Parents should guide and help their teenage child to make correct decisions
in many things. The child also has to start training for the career that he
intends to pursue so that he can stand on his own feet and ability. At this
time, the child is close to marriage and the parents' responsibility towards
their children comes to an end.
Subhanallah!
How our parents has made a very good job! And fulfill their responsibility in
raising us! Syukran mama and ayah! May Allah swt bless both of you with all
of HIS mercy! Amin!
In the nutshell, we can use that 7 years period to set an specific goal to be
a better person, and to be a better Muslimah. In sya allah ( with Allah swt wills)
So, now my age is 19. I have another two years to accomplish my goal!
At the age of 21, I should.....
In sya allah! I hope I can do it! With new goal! Guide me Ya Allah!
You can start figure it now.. I should.......when I turn 21. Walla...
In sya allah! |
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